the sewer system :P

Friday, November 26, 2010

Long Distance Relationship :)

my Gaing and i are going to start our long distance relationship so soon...he is going back to Lawas..huhuhu...the only time we can meet each other is only during the holidays.i gonna miss him so much. there will be no more date every weekend and even dinner together..huhuhu..i hope that next year, my Gaing will settle down in Kuching after his convocation and always be near to me.hehehehe....
i know that we can survive this relationship..
coz i believe that our loves is strong and what most important is, we trust each other so much.

long distance relationship..

the biggest fear in girl's life.. most girls dislike long 

distance relationship...

some couples struggle hard to make their relationship 


the first question you need to ask yourself...

" Will it's work?"

yah..that's what most important. being in a long distance 

relationship is not that easy. it requires a very strong 

trust, commitment, understanding and guidelines to 


a strong commitment between you and your partner is 

what most important. 

trust and a perfect guidelines important to make your 

relationship cherish every days. distance is not the 

matter anymore is you got a strong commitment. Though 

you may not be able to see each other everyday, talking 

in the phone for few hours shows that how much he 

cares about you. When the love thing steps into play, 

you'll probably spend hours and hours on the phone or 

instant messaging and maybe also texting.

daily communication is most important. call, texts, email 

and video-call. 

The evolution of the Internet is godsend for people who 

are in long distance relationships. 

**thank's to the modern technology. 

you still can communicate via email, instant messaging 

and talk with each other free through SKYPE...

send a sweet text or cute card to your partner just to 

show how much you care for him. e-card is the fastest and 

easiest way to show how much you concern and love 

him. nowadays many website offers e-card and the best 

thing is, it is for free..

girls most of the times need attention and often feel left 

out. but if you are in a long distance relationship, you have 

to understand that your partner is not with you. you only 

can meet him once in a while or maybe during the 

holidays. express your feeling to him every single days.

tell him how much you care and miss him. 

When you express your feelings, you are letting your 

partner know that you are committed to making the 

relationship work.

once in a while, you can send a CARE-PACKAGE.. Gift 

that show how much you care for him even you are miles 


prepare a package or small gift that include a cute text 

written inside or you can also add in candy or chocolates 

with a sweet note such as 



everyone loves receive mail and so do your boo. he 

surely smile and feel appreciated by you.

set a visit to his place. everyone love surprise...he sure 

loves it. he will be so glad and happy with your 

surprise visit. 

plan your meeting or vacation together. vacation 

together can cherish your relationship and build more 

commitment. trust your partner and keep no doubt in 

your relationship is important. trusting each other and 

give your partner an honest chance to prove himself. 

trust him until they give you a reason not to.

distance is not a big issue in a relationship. it is just how 

you make it works. even you are miles away from him, 

technology will draw us closer. so, make full of the 

technology to work up your relationship.

Your long distance relationship can work if you put the 

time and effort into making it work!

Tuesday, November 23, 2010

I want to get married....WAAAAAA!!!

teen marriage? young couples? 
marriage is a binding contract between the two parties that joins together their possessions, income and lives...and most of all share their loves eternally. 
but some define that marriage is a contract between two opposite sexes that create a kinship and produce offspring..

my personal opinion bout marriage is all about LOVE.. Sharing your love and life with the one that who really cares, loves and commit his/her life to you eternally. 

recently, my mind been playing this words..
" I wanna get married!! "..that is all been playing in my mind right now. 

i just can't describe how i feel when i see a picture of a married couple in their wedding portrait, hugging or kissing each other with lots of loves show in their eyes. my heart would sink and beat fast as if it's gonna explode. my mind will start playing love songs and start imagine myself in the most elegant yet sexy wedding gown..walking down the aisle while the sound of the beautiful piano plays..n there, my MACCLEAN GAING ANDREW waiting for me at the altar with his big smile n the loves in his eyes.. Going down the aisle with style and gracefulness..walking slowly to my prince charming who waiting patiently at the altar with a priest in front. Walk to him and stand right next to him and look at the priest together. Say our wedding vows together and make a promise to God that we will always love and care for each other no matter rich or poor, healthy or sick, we will always together, supporting each others and most of all eternally. 
the priest bless us and everyone cheers,and we kiss passionately...hehehehe..

the theme for the wedding reception is " Beach 
Wedding " will be held at the most beautiful beach in Sarawak. 

Beach weddings can be truly spectacular and 

memorable romantic landscapes because it offers 

sea, beach and sunset or dawn. 

My dress will be in light purple satin 

strapless dress with sweetheart neckline while 

my Ging will be using this luxurious black LV's 


Both of us gonna be the spotlight of the party. 

our families members, beloved friends from 

Kuching, Serian, Bau, Lawas, Miri, Peninsular 

M'sia and all over the place will come over and 

gather in this blissful moment of our life.

everyone will toast and cheer for our happiness 
eternally and we have a great and blast  wedding reception. 

and now, we are officially Husband & Wife..hehehe
I wish too..**dussss****
end of my imagination..hahaha..

But the reality is…

Fear of marriage is based on an irrational 

fear, the refusal to face the responsibilities 

and hardships of life in two. This fear is more 

met in the men who prefer to love without 

formalize the relationship . Marriage anxiety 

is manifested by direct rejections, but with 

different stated reasons that men bring to the 

foreground if possible to postpone a marriage.

You need a very strong commitment in your 

marriage. Patient and understanding with love 

and care is what you require in a TRUE 


After all, we both are still young. Soon, the 

day will come and i promise i will make it last 


** Ging @ Macclean, i love u so much..**